real mature??

what mean by mature??
mature mean we do the things that did not gv our dad n mum worry??
mature mean that we all do things follow by our parent instruction n know how to manage our time n money???
mature mean we can help our elders solve their problem??
all the mature people did not have any "complain"??
they will accept all the problem in front them n solve it??
they will do the things that their parent told even they did not like??

they called mature by elders because of that??
because they know what to do n what not to do.

i dun think so....
everyone have their own secret...
even a "big guy" may also will hug a bear n say he love it.
y??maybe the "big guy" was repulse by others girl n he is alone.
even a "beautiful girl" will "masturbation" because she also repulse by others guy n she also alone.
this maybe they need to satisfy themselve in their own world.

not every ppl in front of us we thought they were mature, actually they r not. just some of them were. they only pretent that they r mature, in their real world(in their own room when alone), what they did naive things we dunno.